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~~Still in Limbo~~ · 06-23-2009, 01:57 PM

Jayne, You are in My Prayers, as is Bill and Your Father and Mother. As long as You have Power of Attorney, let the Vultures Hover, it happens in Every Family. Leave those thoughts for later and Worry about You, Bill, and Your Folks!! Maybe Someone from the Church can go and Stay at Your Folks Home for a Few Days, so nothing Disappears! My Prayers stay Strong!! Wink

***kate*** · 06-23-2009, 04:19 PM

Prayers to your whole family.

jayne · 06-23-2009, 04:20 PM

all Momma and Daddy have is in my name....its been thay way for years.....except a new lawn mower he bought on his credit card last month and I know they will want it back...My little brother is mad I let them go in but I have to be here right now and they are 50 miles away hes that far from them to and he works long hours...hes off tomorrow but"its is day to be with the Boys and they wont wanna stay in a nursing home all day" so I had to do it.....hes not willing to give up a day of play I just cant worry about pleaseing him its not what I want to do but what I have to do... first is Bill then Daddy its a hard choice but no choice........Bill is doing better he just isnt putting out enough urine so they gave him some lasix (I am quessing on the spelling)other than that he is ok

monster · 06-23-2009, 05:00 PM

Jayne, I found out with Randy that there is a topical anesthetic (I believe) that they can use for Bill and his catheter. It would just go on the tip of his ummm, well you know what. It does help relieve the discomfort. I believe it's a form of Lidocaine but Im not sure. The catheter's are uncomfie as hec and they don't seem to volunteer this info but it helped Randy quite alot, he was ready to yank the thing out!

I'm so sorry to hear of your parents and have them in my prayers as well. If you haven't told Bill you might want to wait so as not to stress him out.

I am so sorry you are going through this at all much less all at once. Sure wish I was close to you I could sit with your parents while you are with Bill.

RNvic · 06-23-2009, 05:21 PM

jAYNE- Prayers going up for your parents and Bill. If you need to talk give me a call.

MJC · 06-24-2009, 09:12 AM

Jayne,
Just wanted you to know that I am thinking and praying for all of your family. I am praying that our Lord will take care of your father until things can get better for you. Your plate is just too full right now and I am so worried about you holding up. Please call me if you need to talk. Love y'all.

Cajun Hugssssssssssssss,
MJC

~~Still in Limbo~~ · 06-24-2009, 12:41 PM

You have My Number, and My Prayers Dear!! Wink

jayne · 06-24-2009, 01:23 PM

The D.O.N. of the nursing home that I fought so hard last year is helping me..once we found out we were both on the same page and stopped bumping heads we gee haw real well....right now she is keeping an eye on my folks and calls me with updates several times a day....Bill is just waiting for a room in cardiac care right now and should go home at the end of the week then the real work starts as I keep him down for awhile....I went home and slept last night for the first real sleep I have had in 2 weeks amazing how much better things seem today....and I dont have to be the hard (Jayne's lame attempt to bypass the Bad Word Filter) as my son the marine is here being just that....I can stand down and just be a wife.......I do not know how to express how very much you all have helped thru this....I couldnt have done it without you and our church.....thank you seems so little but right now its all I have......
We are in sparks hospital in Fort Smith Arkansas and they have the best cardiac care in this area so I am content that they know what they are doing....again thanks,jayne

bronco54501 · 06-24-2009, 04:56 PM

Jayne, I have faith that every thing will be ok but remember you need your rest. Were still thinking about you's...................Bronco

backache · 06-24-2009, 06:06 PM

I will keep you and your family in my prayers Hun. Take care of yourself.....