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WC Wisdom and Help Needed
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05-12-2007, 07:56 AM
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RE: WC Wisdom and Help Needed
chrischris Wrote:Hi All,Hi Chris...I hope you are having a good day, First thing, I want to wish you A Happy Mother's Day. I was happy to read that you are no longer working in that stressful place anymore. I know that know you still have stress from there but just in a diffirent matter. Please don't think your career is forever over. Look at it this way...that chapter in your life is over. But only with that job. That job was not treating you as the real person you are. You still can hold your head high you have done nothing wrong. getting the stress out of your life just may help you to medically be able to get healthier. I have never given up the hope that I will be able to return to some kind of employment. But just as you. They the Dr. and myself have to get my health meaning mostly our pain under some control. So we can function in some normalance in our lives. Your pain then having all that added stress from a nasty and uncaring boss was doing you know good. I can't help you the direction of do you add the stress claim what does your attroney say? I know with the RSD it is even harder to make just a simple decision...so making this kind of decision just has your mind spinning. What I did with my Attroney just recently was asked him to write down all the options I had...the pro and cons...the possible outcomes. Then send them to me. So then husband and I could go over them. That way I have time to really think about things. Maybe that could help you. Chris I really hope you find a light at the end of the tunnel. If you find it is getting to be more then you can handle step back and tell everyone involved to step back....just explain to them you can take this much at one time. Your health comes first. Remember your depression, you don't want to become so overwhelmed you are just completely out of it. I ended up yesterday sitting in my Dr. office is just so much pain and overwhelmed with tears that I thought I was loosing it. Just having the good ole Dr talk did me some good...and he increased some meds. So just don't let it all get to overwhelming.. Take Care, |
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05-12-2007, 02:13 PM
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RE: WC Wisdom and Help Needed
you are probably right about not trusting your judgement now and getting others input. Along that line you might be selling rehab short especially with emotions running every which way. one of things a good VR counselor does is help you "see" yourself in another career.
It is tough to change when you've locked a single view of your workself. I'm not sure there are many other paths around your psychological predicament except, of course, continuing the course you are on. Maybe at some later point in your counseling the rehab option will fall on a more receptive psyche. be well. |
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05-12-2007, 02:26 PM
Post: #13
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RE: WC Wisdom and Help Needed
hi CC.....i am in total agreement with 1171 on the VR. 1 year after my first injury in '99 someone suggested i call my state's OVR. i did. they were great. not only did they pay for my work hardening therapy, put me with a great counselor because they saw i needed the mind/emotional support also, who i saw for maybe 3 years (he was the one who dx me with PTSD), but they also paid for me to return to school. i didn't finish as i was called back to work with 48 hours notice, no restrictions. at the time i returned because of financial reasons. was really afraid to lose my paycheck and benefits. so i put my health aside and returned full duty. i worked for 3 years before re-injuring my back and an added knee injury. i think they are wonderful. at least my counselor was. wishing you the best as usual.
CAP
God is never late. In the end it doesn't matter how many years were in your life but how much life was in your years. |
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