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Lilly · 11-29-2007, 09:43 AM

Hi , you guys are smarter than me....I can't find any posts by her!!
Lilly Smile

Lilly · 11-29-2007, 10:02 AM

Nevermind....i found it Sad

Lilly

~~Still in Limbo~~ · 11-29-2007, 10:59 AM

Guaranteed that's her, I can tell by the Way She Types and Speaks! I though from the Very Beginning there was Something not Quite correct with Her, and in One of Her posts on there She's Smoking Dope while on Her Meds. and under a PM Agreement! That's what is so Hard about meeting and trying to Help People on the Computer, You never Really know who they are, or how they act when the Keyboard is Off!! Now Please don't get Me wrong, I Trust 99.9% of the People on Here, We have become somewhat of a Family, but every Once in a While, Someone like Her will work their Way Here. My Thoughts in the Beginning was She was Seeking Drugs, and I guess that Seems to be the Case! But at Least We can say We tried to Help Her the Correct Way, I know a Few People, Myself included, that spent a LOT of Time on PM with Her, trying to Help!! I wish Her the Best, but She sure seems to be heading down the Wrong Path Quick!! Sad

Lilly · 11-29-2007, 11:07 AM

This was my first impression also Still, as her frantic pain levels seemed to be over the top IMO. When I am bad off (pain -wise)...I certainly don't post & post, pm people, & sit at the PC for hrs....i pace the floor, then go hide with my blankie, and rock myself and wake up in the a.m. with swollen eyes from bawling .
It's very sad....and I feel bad for her.
Lilly

~~Tuffy~~ · 11-29-2007, 11:54 AM

I agree with you all, and it is a sad situation and I hope for her sake that some day she will get the real help she needs. So young to be so messed up, as she has a lifetime ahead of her. Those drugs will fry a persons brain. And it is people like her that give true IWs a bad name,

~~CRABBY~~ · 11-29-2007, 12:56 PM

It makes me wonder if her accident at work was caused by her use of smoking the weed...and that possibly that is why she was so hesitant to contact an attorney and why she became so defensive to those who were trying to help her with her attempts to get medicine so often....I have trouble with someone that would lie, but I will say this, she is the only one that knows the truth about what really happened at work and she is the only one that can pull herself out of this horrible situation by accepting and realizing the truth will be the only benefit at this time....and the only way to get the "weed" out of your system is to not use it....because one day it will surely show up on a test....clean pill or not!!!!!...Mel needs to step back and re-evaluate her life and priorities and she does have her youth to help her with that...life is what you make it Mel and really ask God to help you with your addiction!!!!and with you life, he will....and please do not underestimate the people here on this forum and the professionals, we've been around a little bit longer than you and I think that is why so many here are offended and appalled by your threads, at least I was....I truly resented being "played" by you and I hope you realize this in the future....there is no need for it! You do need professional help (counseling) as many do....including myself for the depression!!! I hope you seek it and use it to your advantage and if your injury was due to something at work and not by something you choose to put in your body that caused you to injure yourself then all will work out....but you NEED to clean up your act and now.....

~~mel1980~~ · 11-29-2007, 01:43 PM

I am extremely hurt and cant believe all of you have labled me a drug addict think what you will....It does not matter...I know the truth of the matter and my injury is real and work related and i am no drug addict so think what you want and make assumptions on people without even knowing them i am not after narcotics or drugs and i do not do illegal drugs either....Have any one of you on this forum ever smoked pot??????? IF you answer yes does that make you a drug addict....I have alot on my plate right now other then pain to deal with alot of things have happend to me in the past few weeks and its very hard to manage at 27 to be dealt with all of this so take it as you want...I went for my epidoral today and my pm dr is wonderfulll and knows my history if he thought there was an issue why would he continue to prescribe meds i think you all need to re evaluate yourselves before you put judgement onto other people....You are all god loving and i can see your true colors

~~CRABBY~~ · (This post was last modified: 11-29-2007 01:57 PM by medhavi.)

mel1980 Wrote:I am extremely hurt and cant believe all of you have labled me a drug addict think what you will....It does not matter...I know the truth of the matter and my injury is real and work related and i am no drug addict so think what you want and make assumptions on people without even knowing them i am not after narcotics or drugs and i do not do illegal drugs either....Have any one of you on this forum ever smoked pot??????? IF you answer yes does that make you a drug addict....I have alot on my plate right now other then pain to deal with alot of things have happend to me in the past few weeks and its very hard to manage at 27 to be dealt with all of this so take it as you want...I went for my epidoral today and my pm dr is wonderfulll and knows my history if he thought there was an issue why would he continue to prescribe meds i think you all need to re evaluate yourselves before you put judgement onto other people....You are all god loving and i can see your true colors

Don't we all have a lot on our plates!!!!! I don't smoke dope tho!!!! Please don't come here all self-rightous...and pointing accusitory fingers at any one of us...we were trying to help you and once again your on your "HIGH" horse....I found your post by accident....what do you expect people to think? asking about how to pass a drug test?....and then they give you the answers!!!! Grow up Mel....get your life together...Why is it you have so much on your plate? Start taking baby steps and get yourself together...Yes I am a believer in God....it wasn't always, but I do believe .... You keep saying the same things over and over again....all you do is seek drugs...it's evident in your post here and there...Why don't you start being truthful....and quit playing your poor me games....suck it up girl and take it like the rest of us....How many times do you need to be told!!!!! and if you truely need help get it!!!!!

If you don't do illegal drugs what the heck is weed then? Do you have a prescription for medicinal purposes...I think not!!!! Maybe you need to get busted to see the light!!!!!!

~~mel1980~~ · 11-29-2007, 02:00 PM

ya know what crabby and everyone else think what you want and i am not on my HIGH HORSE either....and yea i have been dealt a pretty bad hand lately and i am not a drug seeker and i made an accident by smoking something so should i go to jail for that or have a label put on me give me a break......I do suck it up...Why is that i have so much on my plate is irrelvant to being labeld a drug seeker or addict in which i am not and i am highly insulted u all act like you are my friend and then turn on me in a second how would u feel if after u were with a man for 8 years and they had an affair how would u feel on top of that and everything else yea i have alot going on which in no ones buisness but my own so u all should re evaluate before passing a label onto a person

~~mel1980~~ · 11-29-2007, 02:03 PM

Guaranteed that's her, I can tell by the Way She Types and Speaks! I though from the Very Beginning there was Something not Quite correct with Her, and in One of Her posts on there She's Smoking Dope while on Her Meds. and under a PM Agreement! That's what is so Hard about meeting and trying to Help People on the Computer, You never Really know who they are, or how they act when the Keyboard is Off!! Now Please don't get Me wrong, I Trust 99.9% of the People on Here, We have become somewhat of a Family, but every Once in a While, Someone like Her will work their Way Here. My Thoughts in the Beginning was She was Seeking Drugs, and I guess that Seems to be the Case! But at Least We can say We tried to Help Her the Correct Way, I know a Few People, Myself included, that spent a LOT of Time on PM with Her, trying to Help!! I wish Her the Best, but She sure seems to be heading down the Wrong Path Quick!!

Limbo maybe u should go back and re read the post is was before i went to the pm dr and before i sighned a contract so get your facts straight before you point the finger at someone