my childrens weekend

[jayne]

as you all know we spent last weekend in Tulsa.....Let me start by saying all my children are fine.These last 3 we adopted all have fetal alcohol syndrome and need to be watched carefully....My older daughter was going to have them for most of the weekend but for the 4-5 hrs each day she was going to work their bio Dad was gonna watch them...we felt he was doing well and we could trust him......
Fri in Tulsa I get a call from his mom....Jayne do not leave the children with Tim his boss says he is drinking again......I call Becca and tell her...she says dont worry Mom if he is drinking he wont get the kids I will call in sick(becca hates Tim anyhow)she calls me back Mom hes fine...she goes to work...comes and gets them that nite other than seeming to be very tired he is ok kids are rocking he has given them lots of candy......Sat. she takes them back he still seems tired but otherwise OK...she asks him please do not give them candy or soda pop when she gets back she can hear the TV in the parking lot....the kids answer the door and Tim is laying in the floor....looking like he has been in an accident ....Becca steps over him and turns off TV.....this is what they did that day..after he gave them candy and soda pop....he gave them a gallon of paint and told them they could paint the walls...and promply passed out in the floor (drugs or booze we are not sure) they painted the walls,tables,countertops,floor and furniture......Carrie (9)and shae(5) gave him a "makeover" using red nail polish to paint his eyes,lips and cheeks (this is what Becca thought was blood)she also gave him a "haircut" (he used to have long hair he now has a buz cut .....Daniel(8) started a fire in potpourri in the living room.....these children as near as we can figure had 3 hrs to distroy his apartment...judging on the movies carrie said they "watched" almost every surface had cream latex pain or red fingernail polish on it...the kids told Becca they kicked and hit him trying to wake him up...so out the door Becca hauls off and kicks him in the side as hard as she can......she DID NOT TELL ME THIS TILL I GOT HOME........Then she was worried he was dead and her finger prints were the last adult ones on the door and TV...so I called his Mom the next morning she called his boss and they sent someone over he was still passed out in the floor....and they said the apartment looked like a war zone....now if you arent ROFLYAO then you have no sense of humor.....He will never see my kids again and I bet he never shuts his eyes around a child again...And he better be glad it was Becca that found him and not me or his Mom.