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RE: Does your family understand and support you - Bernie57 - 10-14-2009 08:17 PM
You said your bf is not physical, but you state you always do what he says. If you defy him,no one can ever be too sure.You need to save yourself and the children, you don't need your son thinking this is the proper way to act. Worms are a dime a dozen, take your meds and listen to people who really care about you.
If you are afraid to stand up to him, call an agency. I love my husband, if he tried to ruin my life, I would make it my lifes goal
to destroy his. You deserve support and understanding. Stay Strong,
Bernie
RE: Does your family understand and support you - backache - 10-15-2009 09:03 AM
Hi Hun, You stated that your BF's former wife took all kinds of pills. By chance was she an addict? If he has been with an addict in the past he may think that you taking pain meds will make you into one. He doesn't seem to realize the difference between someone who needs medication to control pain and someone who takes it because they need it or they will be in pain because of their addiction.(This may not have come out right) I am not trying to give him an excuse but this jumped out at me in your post. You are in pain and need these meds. He has no right to tell you not to take them. Please tell your medical professional about this. Refuse to leave the office until they listen to you....You will get a great deal of support on this forum. This man should be your support, but he seems to be unable to . He seems like the kind of fair weather friend, When everything was good he was there for you, but now when you need him he backs away.
RE: Does your family understand and support you - Bad Boy Bad Boy - 10-15-2009 12:15 PM
Cookiecrum, just a question;
Have you ever been addicted to drugs, or medication in the past?
RE: Does your family understand and support you - jayne - 10-15-2009 02:20 PM
cookie wanna borrow some of my cousins? they would change his mind pretty quick or drop him off at the ER when they were done....I love cousins......
RE: Does your family understand and support you - Bad Boy Bad Boy - 10-15-2009 02:41 PM
Jayne, funny...
Never ever have I not tooken care of something myself, before asking someone else to do it for me. I would rather they see my face and know who is sending the message.
RE: Does your family understand and support you - Cookiecrum - 10-15-2009 03:06 PM
Bad Boy, no I have never been addicted to pills or anything, just cigarettes.
Well today I went to the Pm doctor and there is nothing that can be taken away from me because he gave me a cream. Voltaren Gel. I am not sure how that is going to work but I will try it and we will see.
Hey Jayne still looking for those food stretchers...lol
RE: Does your family understand and support you - backache - 10-15-2009 04:18 PM
Cookiecrumb Go over to off topic and start a thread. I'm sure you will get more recipes than you know what to do with. Backache
RE: Does your family understand and support you - bodybuilder1958 - 10-15-2009 07:23 PM
Please read very carefully the packet insert on the gel especially as it applies to the OTC meds you might also take. It's very important. Your bf might change his attitude a bit now that his stash has been removed. Hope the gel works for you.
Take care, stay safe,
Joan